Sometimes you can not explain the strange feeling you have: in your mind, it is certain that your spouse is cheating on you. It is not healthy to have paranoia or obsession with a thought that may be merely a figment of your imagination, but if there are some details that relate to each other, listen to your intuition and be vigilant.
All the signs below are alarming and indicate that the presence of a third person is there.
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A noticeable emotional disconnect from you and a pronounced lack of intimacy in communication. When you and your partner spend a lot of time getting busy, it becomes even harder to maintain emotional intimacy and usually a traitor tries to create empty spaces to distance himself from the relationship.
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Excess time spent outside the home - extended hours in the evening at the office, work on the weekends, frequent business trips, etc., etc.
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Strange marks on his body, odors unknown to you or stains on his clothes. All lead to a conclusion.
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Significant lack of physical intimacy with you.
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Unnecessary quarrels every time he comes home.
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Behaviors that show that he is increasingly distanced from you.
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Suddenly increased interest in their appearance - weight loss, self-care, new clothes, etc., etc.
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Posesiviteti. Të akuzon ty që po flirton apo je e interesuar për të tjerë, duke zgjedhur sulmin si mbrojtjen më të mirë.
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Injoron gjithçka që bën ti. Nga ana tjetër, atëherë kur më pak e pret bëhet i sjellshëm dhe shfaqet me dhurata në derë.
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Të thonë vazhdimisht se kanë nevojë për kohë veten për t'u menduar në lidhje me raportin. Mund të jeni thuajse të sigurtë që nuk janë vetëm gjatë kohës që mendohen.
Ç'mund të bëni nëse keni vënë re gjithë sinjalet e lartpërmendura?
Në fund të ditës, e vendosni ju nëse doni ose jo ta shpëtoni martesën, por fillimisht bëjini vetes pyetjen: A ja vlen?
If the answer is yes, show empathy and be more involved in your partner's thoughts. Talk at length with him clarify with yourself whether you still love this man or not. If you both need to, you can rebuild the relationship from the beginning, but remember that you have to leave the bad memories behind, so that his / her betrayal is not mentioned in the first quarrel between you. It's easy to end up in divorce, but if you choose to be open and authentic you can save it.
Source: Psychology Today
