Keep notes of what you learned from the process!
1. You notice that your boundaries are not respected
Pay attention to how they respond when they do not get what they want from you or when you express a contrary opinion from him. The way someone reacts to the limits or boundaries you set tells a lot about him. Do they treat you with respect or violate the limits you set, regardless of how you feel ?! Answer this.
2. Are rude to others
It does not matter how well they treat you on the first date. Notice how they treat others around you. If they complain all the time about the waiter, or swear between their teeth, then good manners with you is just facade.
3. Refer to one of the ex-partners as "crazy".
Discussions about ex-partners in first dates are not a good idea, but if you are talking about them and the person in front of them labels them with such words, it says a lot about it. It would not be surprising that after a while he would use the same epithets for you.
4. Tends to speak ill of others
If he speaks ill of everyone, do you think there is something wrong with people other than him? If he finds problems in everyone except himself, then consider it a bad omen. He will soon blame you for every quarrel in the relationship.
5. They make you feel bad through embarrassing questions
They want to see you embarrassed and this is not a noble gesture at all. Provocations or schemes on the first date remain ugly and tell a lot about the character and loads of the person in front of you.
6. Constantly check the phone
In case there is no emergency, the phone can wait. It is inappropriate to deal with him during a meeting as he lets them know that you are not enjoying the conversation and that you are not 100% present.
7. Talk about yourself all the time
It makes a difference if he talks to you or is talking to you. When someone talks to you, they only talk about themselves and do not talk. There are only stories, no questions or free space for exchange of views. It makes you think that for them it does not matter if you are or are not present.
8. You feel that they are rushing to get to know you very quickly
The first meeting mentions the future, the things you will do together, the places you will see or even a possible marriage. You should be a little scared. Getting to know someone is a process that should come gradually and very naturally. It can be exciting to hear such words, but remember that he / she does not know you yet and it is a false sense of security all that is being said to you in those moments.
Source: Psychology Today
