It is generally thought that when sex is not done for long, desire is increased. That's not actually the case. When you don't have sex, you don't think about it anymore or expect it. That's not necessarily a bad thing, it's important to understand why it happens.
If we talk about the biological side, regular sex helps blood circulation in intimate areas by helping you have more lubricancy (a sign you're about to have sex).
Furthermore, hormones such as oxytocin and endorphin are released during the sexual act, which leads to the signal of pleasure in the brain and increases the desire to have sex. In this way, even long periods without having relationships will make your desire smaller and sexual awakening more difficult.
It doesn't end here. By not thinking about sex, you focus more on stressful and stressful factors in you (such as time limits at work, children, etc.) and these are factors that reduce the desire for sex.
Below are some tips you've heard about, but need to remember. You have to let someone approach you to bring you to the mood even if you don't feel ready for it. Small changes in relationships can strengthen sexuality and passion. So try to do something new, go somewhere together, try a new restaurant and it will take you away from your lack of desire.
Burimi: Women's Health
