Relationships are different. They can sometimes be difficult, complex and often incomprehensible. However, there are some characteristics that distinguish healthy relationships that last for a very long time (even a lifetime) from unhealthy, abusive and / or conflicting relationships. According to Mitzi Bockmann, a trainer who works with men and women on self-esteem and relationships, you need to consider five questions. If you answered yes, then your relationship is likely to last forever.
1. Do you speak openly?
Can you tell your partner when you do not like something he / she is doing? Truth is the basis of any strong relationship that will last, and if you can not tell the man of your heart what you need, or be open to what he / she does, then your relationship is unlikely to last for very long.
2. Are you honest about privacy?
Intimacy is different for everyone. Some people like to shake hands and hug. Some people do not want to. Some others want sex every day. Unfortunately, even for the healthiest couples, privacy issues can be difficult to discuss. But it is important to immediately discuss any privacy issues you may have.
3. Are relationships outside of your relationship healthy?
Për shumë çifte, ka probleme që në fillim kur bëhet fjalë për marrëdhëniet e tyre me familjen dhe miqtë e partnerin/es për shkak të papajtueshmërisë. Njerëzit janë të ndryshëm dhe jo domosdoshmërisht duhet t’i pëlqeni sjelljet e familjarëve ose miqve të tij/saj, por në vend që t’i shpërfillni, përpiquni t’i kuptoni ose t’i diskutoni me të.
4. A ka respekt të ndërsjellë?
Si mund të duash dhe të pëlqesh dikë, po të mos kesh respekt? Mungesa e respektit sjell përbuzje dhe nuk ka asgjë më të keqe në një marrëdhënie se përbuzja. Vetëm me praninë e respektit të ndërsjellë një marrëdhënie mund të lulëzojë dhe të zgjasë një jetë.
5. A ju pëlqen koha që kaloni së bashku?
Do you and your partner really try to spend time together? Or make excuses for not staying together? If you do not want to spend time with him, then your relationship is not healthy. Talk and try to figure out what you can do to connect more.
