So your partner has asked you for a "break" to think and clear up about the future of your relationship and you do not want that. Do not write to them and do not pick up the phone! We will explain how to act on the advice of relationship experts to totally change the game.
First of all, you have to understand that the decision was the partner's and take it as separation, so "break" = separation because in the end there is no difference between these terms when it comes to a relationship. No relationship can pause for a few days and come back as if nothing happened.
Do not try to fix things in the moment, write them down, pick them up on the phone, ask them where the problem was and beg them to try the connection again! Do not do it! The biggest mistake you can make now is to try to rebuild the relationship (already on vacation) when you yourself are in the same situation or worse than the moment your partner wanted to leave you. Logically it just worsens your relationship towards the end because you will give the idea of ??a weak, dramatic, dependent, attached person (I know these are hard words to read, but it generally happens and someone has to ' tells you the truth).
If you behave and think this way, you can not improve the situation from a weak position in this relationship and the partner take full power over you and your feelings. The right behavior is to be indifferent, to be mysterious, to accept the "rest" which at some point ~ can het turn into a final separation.
"No contact rule" is the most well-known and most mentioned rule by couples relationship experts, the one that has worked in more than 90% of cases according to them. According to this rule, you should not take any action against the other person for at least 21 days, no message, no phone call, no likes on social networks, no dedications through stories, nor to pass "accidentally" to his neighborhood.
With this behavior he reaches 2 solutions: the partner becomes curious why you are not interested in him, if you do not love him anymore, if you forgot him so quickly, question his choice for this famous "vacation". Most importantly, you should use this period to take care of yourself, to learn a new hobby, to meet new people, to meet friends more often, to feel good about yourself. So, this period of "no contact" should be a way to develop even more psychologically, professionally, why not for physical changes.
Experts guarantee that if he really loved you, he will return sooner than 21 days of order, but it is important to focus realistically on yourself, your well-being, mentally and energetically.
You can leave now to delete his name from the Instagram search history :)
