Get rid of clichés!
Putting yourself in specific roles makes you lose your inner voice. So put an end to the long exhaustion, which starts with sentences like: "I have to be, I have to do, at my age it is time for ..." You set the rules based on what you consider important or not.
"Coexistence is the grave of love"
Marriage or cohabitation is a very strong test for the relationship in the couple, but it is not said that it harms. You need to be honest with yourself and your partner about the reasons why you need to take this big step. Saving on expenses or staying together for many years are not valid reasons for marriage today. The first step that needs to be done and clarified is the commitment that both parties make by projecting the future together. The goal should be the same!
"The man of one night is not the man of life"
A recent study shows that many stable relationships have started quite by accident, just like a sex night. So the rule that you can not have sex without being a couple has long been broken. Although, of course, for a physical connection to turn into something more than a night out, it is important to know and frequent outside the bedroom.
"Good sex is always spontaneous."
According to sexologists, spontaneous sex is a myth. In fact, nowadays, amid work, children and dozens of other worries and stresses, a hot night in bed can only be that well organized and earlier. Buying some new and sexy lingerie, waxing and going to some good restaurant; this is to program sex today. And the latter is even more necessary in long reports.
"Never go to bed nervously."
Another myth to be thrown away! Firstly because not clarifying the situation which at first means carrying the problem, secondly the cause of the quarrel may seem less dramatic with the birth of a new day.
"Do not talk about money until marriage!"
Here it is not! It may be a little or not at all romantic, but money is a very important part of our lives, so it is good to discuss it, even though you do not share the same bank account. This is not about interference from you or him, but asking if you are willing to combine income or expenses in the future is a good way to avoid further bad surprises. Sooner or later you will have to do it.
Source: Huffington Post
