Kissing your kids on the lips has been a hot topic for decades, but it has become more and more prominent in recent years when characters like Victoria, David Beckham or Hillary Duff, have posted pictures kissing kids on the lips. A few years ago, Miriam Cani responded to criticism on the network after a photo where he kissed his daughter. During the Big Brother VIP, Ilir Shaqiri's meeting was also criticized, for exactly the same thing.
The whole world seems to have an opinion on this topic (whether they are parents or not) and these opinions vary greatly. Even "experts" often have different approaches.
Dr. Charlotte Reznick, author of "The Power Of Your Child's Imagination: How To Transform Stress And Anxiety Into Joy and Success" told The Stir in 2010 that kissing on the lips is "very sexual" for young children and can be "stimulating" . ”
"It's very confusing," she said, angering parents around the world.
Many other doctors and psychologists have disagreed with him over the years and say it is perfectly normal to kiss children on the lips. They say believing that a kiss is confusing would be similar to the idea that breastfeeding is the same.
It is cultural and family based
In 2016, parenting expert and Tools of Growth founder Roma Khetarpal told Global News that the controversy over lip kissing is highly cultural and has to do with how you grew up.
"It's common in some cultures and not in others," she said. "It depends on the dynamics of your family - just like any other cultural habit."
Khetarpal added that if you were to grow up kissing your parents on the lips, this would be very normal for you, but if you do not, then it may seem unusual. For example, it is very normal for adults and children to kiss on the lips and / or cheeks in European countries.
"Many families have cultural habits when it comes to kissing and for some, the site can also be offensive," she said.
When should you stop kissing your kids on the lips?
Megjithatë, Khetarpal theksoi se ka gjëra që prindërit duhet të kenë parasysh kur puthin fëmijët e tyre në buzë.
- A është e përshtatshme për moshën?
- A e duan fëmijët tuaj këtë gjë?
Ka një moment kur ju ndaloni së bërë gjëra për fëmijët tuaj – fshirja e të pasmeve të tyre, larja dhe veshja e tyre. Khetarpal tha se puthja në buzë duhet të jetë e ngjashme me këtë.
"Vajza ime tani i ka vendosur vetes kufijtë rreth puthjes në buzë, ashtu si kohët e fundit ka kërkuar privatësi në banjë dhe (më në fund) ka filluar të mbyllë derën kur shkon", thotë një prind për Everyday Mom Life.
Ajo shton:
"Nuk mund të mohohet që ajo është duke u rritur, dhe sado e trishtuar që jam se po iu them lamtumirën disa prej këtyre momenteve, jam e lumtur që ajo mund të vendosë dhe të shprehë kufijtë për veten dhe trupin e saj.
"Even though there will be no more kisses on the lips, she likes a kiss on the cheek, head and all my hugs."
In a poll on the subject, Anabel 's followers responded:
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Source: Everyday Mom Life
