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10 seemingly 'normal' things that families do, but are simply toxic behaviors

10 seemingly 'normal' things that families do, but are simply toxic

1.

"The idea that you have to entrust all the problems to your parents or family members, just because you have them inside the house. In fact, life has taught us to trust someone whom we feel good about and who cares about us and sometimes these "are part of the family."

2. 

"Can parents not talk to their children as if they owe them something just because they brought them to life? Nobody asked you to bring them and remember that they are your children, not personal assistants. Respect them."

3.

"When children behave as if everything is going well. Communication, feelings and nothing else exists in this environment and every time someone mentions a problem, it becomes as if nothing happened. I love my family very much, but I prefer to keep my distance from them. "

4.

"The belief that grandparents should pamper grandchildren is simply toxic."

5.

"Questions like: 'When are you going to get married? Why haven't you found someone yet?' And even worse: 'Will I introduce you to someone?' "

6.

"We know that no measures should be taken for their own good, but do not skimp on compliments. Children will think you are not proud of them and that burdens them."

7.

"How awful it is to scold and negatively comment on cousins ??and then invite them home for Christmas, weddings, etc. as if nothing had happened."

8.

"Fake efforts to have the perfect family. This way you will raise children with complexes, be more real."

9.

"Comparisons between siblings. I'm the youngest child and all my life I have heard my mom tell me that my sister has never caused her problems like me. I have always felt like a loser, do not do that."

10.

"Selfish mothers who want to be the center of attention all the time."

Source: BuzzFeed

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