During the weeks, the first months of the relationship it is normal to be skeptical about your feelings and those of the other person. We all know that romance initially has the period of the "honeymoon" where in the world are only you and he and no one else, as we know that one day, this period comes to an end.
The end of the honeymoon period is not necessarily a bad thing, as it shows that the connection is on another level and has taken on a meaning of another dimension. How do you know honey is running out?
1. You have begun to notice his lesser qualities
During the honeymoon phase for you it is perfect and your eyes do not see even the slightest flaw in the person in front. You are very much in love to see your partner's faults and mistakes, but when this phase ends you wake up and start to see more clearly. There he realizes that like all mortals he has flaws and defects that you used to love him, now they have started to irritate you a little. The honey phase is over.
2. Even the passion has begun to fade
At the beginning of the relationship you will see it all the time and intimacy is what connects you the most. When the "honeymoon" is over you have less emotion for her, in bed and not only. However, this does not mean that you no longer have chemistry or physical attraction to each other, you just have to try to make things occasionally more spicy.
3. You have started to react more to conflicts
If you once tried to avoid them or shut them down as soon as possible, now you are involved in the hassle like never before. You are ready as soon as you feel that your nerves no longer hold and react as you did not think you would. Patience! We understand that the tip is over, but it is important to look at things from your partner's perspective and try to understand clearly.
4. You have started to have problems with the compromise part
During the sweet phase you find yourself ready to do everything for your partner. You agreed to any sacrifice or something in the name of your love. Now that time has passed, you feel that it is harder for you to make compromises. Think more about yourself and your interests and that is ok, as long as excessive selfishness does not cause problems in the couple.
5. Spend more time sharing
Nuk po flasim për hapësirën personale që sigurisht është e nevojshme për një marrëdhënie të shëndetshme. E kemi fjalën që ndryshe nga fillimi, kur rrinit bashkë 24/7, tani e gjeni veten shumë herë më shumë vetëm.
6. Nuk të intereson më aq shumë dukja
E mban mend atë kohën gjatë muajit të mjaltit që kujdeseshe të zgjoheshe gjithnjë e bukur, e rregullt dhe perfekte në detaje? Gjërat kanë ndryshuar pasi tani e shihni njëri-tjetrin ndryshe dhe në fakt kjo është pozitive. Nuk keni më nevojë të mbani një look të caktuar për t'i bërë përshtypje atij. Supozohet të jeni komodë me njëri-tjetrin dhe versioni më i vërtetë i vetes.
7. Ti ja lejon vetes që ai të të shohë edhe zakonin më të keq, periudhën më të keqe
At first everything is picturesque. The scenes between you are perfect and there is nothing wrong with the romance picture. As you get to know each other better, let each other see even the most original version, which includes even less interesting gestures. You can sit on the toilet in front of him, admit that he sits next to you when you are vomiting, etc., etc. And he has started to snore and this makes 0 impressions on you.
Source: Bustle
