If you are in a relationship with someone who has been cheated on before, you should be careful not to say one of the following phrases, or a version of them. Even if you could not betray, you can still hurt your partner with your behavior, without realizing it.
1. "You are taking my insecurities out of me"
Do not accuse him of blaming you in vain, but ask what you can do to stay close to him and make him feel more confident.
2. "It's not your job"
If he asks you where you are going or what you are going to do and you give him an evasive answer, be prepared to be questioned. Seemingly secretive behaviors recall past relationships and make them feel suspicious, though for no reason.
3. “I am different. I would never betray you "
All those who betray say they would never betray.
4. "You are becoming paranoid"
When you dismiss their feelings, you make them feel that past trauma is their fault. However, after reassuring your partner that you are committed, you do well not to sacrifice company or activities simply because he or she may become anxious.
5. "I do not have this conversation anymore"
Do not get upset and avoid a repetitive conversation because it only adds to his doubts. Try to find out where the problem really lies. Does your partner get upset when you go out with a specific person? Or when you are late for work three nights in a row? Get to the root of the problem.
6. "You have to give up the past"
To give up the past, one must speak and accept. Ignoring what happened does no good to anyone.
Source: Cosmopolitan
