Ben Affleck thinks he would not have given up alcohol if he had continued to be married to Jennifer Garner
"We would probably end up putting our hands on each other's throats. Maybe I would have drunk yet. "One of the reasons I started drinking was because I felt like I was stuck somewhere," he told The Howard Stern Show on SiriusXM.
Affleck, who went into rehab for alcoholism in 2018, said: “I thought I could not leave because of the children, but I'm not happy, what can I do? "And what I did was drink a bottle of scotch and sleep on the couch, which turned out to be not the solution."
The actor added that he and Jennifer Garner, who were married from 2005 to 2018, tried to make the marriage work for the sake of three children: Violet, 16, Seraphina, 12, and Samuel, 9.
"After all, we tried, we tried, we tried because we had children, but we both felt like we did not want this to be the model our children see marriage in," he said.
Affleck shpjegoi se martesa përfundoi miqësisht. “Ne patëm një martesë që nuk funksionoi. Kjo ndodh. Ajo është dikush që e dua dhe e respektoj, por me të cilën nuk duhet të martohem më,” tha ai.
“Përfundoi miqësisht. Ne bëmë më të mirën. Kishte momente tensioni? A kishim mosmarrëveshje për kujdestarinë? A ishin gjërat e vështira për ne? A u zemëruam? Po, por në thelb kishte gjithmonë respekt. E dija që ishte një nënë e mirë. Gjithmonë shpresoja që ajo ta dinte që unë isha një baba i mirë. E dija që isha.”
Aktori zbuloi se marrëdhënia me fëmijët ishte arsyeja pse vendosi t’i jepte fund varësisë ndaj alkoolit. “Nuk ishte as karriera apo paratë – por marrëdhënia me fëmijët dhe ndjeva sikur ndikoi tek ata, e kuptova,” tha ai.
Affleck is in a relationship with Jennifer Lopez, with whom he was engaged in the early 2000s. They resumed romance in April 2021.
