When you think about the future, do you include it? Are his / her parents aware of your report? Do you enjoy spending time with each other? Are you upset when you do not sleep at home together? Maybe you are ready to live together?
Maybe. Gary W Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor of psychology at Monmouth University, has created a list of 15 questions that helps couples understand whether their relationship will be fruitful or not. According to him, if you answer "yes" to these questions, chances are you are with the right person.
1. Do you make each other better people?
2. Do you talk openly about your feelings, rely on each other, stay close to each other and do not worry that your partner leaves you suddenly?
3. Do you accept each other as you are, without trying to change them?
4. When you have a disagreement, do you communicate respectfully, without any sign of negativity or contempt?
5. Are power, decision-making and influence equally shared in your relationship?
6. Is your partner your best friend and vice versa?
7. Do you think more about "us" than "me" and "you"?
8. Would you trust each other with social network passwords and bank accounts?
9. Do you have good impressions of each other - beyond extraordinarily positive and sugary thoughts?
10. Does your company think you have an enviable relationship?
11. Is it free from dangers such as jealousy, betrayal, and abusive behaviors?
12. Do you share the same values ??when it comes to religion, politics, the importance of marriage, the desire to have or not to have children, and the way of parenting?
13. Are you willing to sacrifice your personal needs, desires, and goals for one another?
14. Do you have emotionally stable personalities?
15. Do you fit in sexually with each other?