Take your time and follow the steps below. You'll find yourself with a second chance at something you're sure you need. And as with everything else, a little work is worth it for the things that really matter.
Spend some time apart
The number one rule of each division is to spend a little time apart. Don't contact the girl in two weeks.
Separations are very emotionally tiring and you need time to breathe, relax and put things in perspective.
Time away from each other will allow things to cool down and you'll be less excited. You'll also have time to think about how you feel about separation, where you're wrong and want to get back with it.
Focus on what you want
During these weeks away, take the time to focus on yourself. Stay single and enjoy it. Assess who you are and what you want.
Go to the gym, find a new style of clothing, go out with friends, make new friends, find a new hobby. There's nothing sexlier than a guy who has his life. This will help you restore self-esteem and safety in place.
If after this time (2 weeks), during which you are dedicated to yourself, you are still sure you love the girl backwards, take the next step.
Understand why he left you.
The first step to restoring your relationship is to understand what didn't go right and why she left you. No girl will accept you if you don't know why she left you. Think deeply until you answer these questions: What did he say to you before you split up?
Had he given signs?
Did he tell you you didn't like or love you anymore?
You might think something just changed in her, but the biggest possibilities are that she gave signs that it was the end of your relationship, what she wanted to change and what she needed from you.
Kontaktojeni
If even after you've spent time you just want it again, contact him. Whichever way you choose, make sure the message is easy and with fun notes.
A message that says "We need to talk" or "I want to get back together" is very heavy and she won't be happy to meet you. Show her the version of yourself, which you showed at the beginning of the relationship.
Meet him and don't be too serious.
Remember to keep calm. Set up a lunch or coffee appointment during the day, just like you're meeting a friend. Something heavier than that, it's going to make you look needy and like you're trying to take a look at it more than you should.
Make sure the conversation is easy, flirtatical and fun. Remind her of the boy she fell in love with, not the guy she broke up with.
Keep taxing
If you want it again after the first meeting, continue with these casual meetings.
Go to the goal.
After a few meetings, if you want to reconnect with him, tell him what you learned from the weeks, during which you stayed apart.
Tell him you understood why you broke up and that you're working to improve that. You have to tell her you've matured and heard what she said.
Do the job
After reconciliation and once the face of the returnee is completed, it is time to start working with the relationship. You have to work with things that didn't work initially.
You should know that the comeback lasts for more than a night, so tell him you're ready to show a better version of yourself, not falling prey to old behaviors. This time you need good communication and a lot of patience. If you have these, the relationship will probably last.
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