Cut off contact.
Still keeping in touch with him just keeps you stuck in the past, so at least at first, cut off any communication: remove it from your friends on Facebook, from viber, app, Skype and disappear his name from your cell phone. If you have mutual friends, temporarily cut off relations with them as long as the difficult part goes by.
Travel to a wonderful place.
Travel to a place that is completely different from where you live. If you live in a noisy city, go somewhere to a quiet village and if you live in a quiet little town, go to a noisy place. The budget doesn't let you? At least stay in a part of the city you haven't frequented before. Despite the new stimulus, you won't have time to think about the past.
Enjoy yourself.
One of the biggest evils of a division: lack of sex. Stay away from the desert having fun with sex toys. It can give you even more pleasure than your son. You never know.
Eat more salad.
The iconic image of the post-division is the girl with tuta, sitting in the cough, remote control in hand and with a bucket of ice cream in front. You'll pass this condition faster if you eat healthy and add your training. When you feel good about the exterior, you'll start to feel better inside.
Show the body.
Take off your comfort clothes after the split and take out what makes you look even sexnier. A nice pair of shoes, a miniskirt or even a flamboyant lipstick. Every look you get will be a booster of self-confidence. Oh, even if you don't intend to switch to other activities, wear those super sexy tantella underwear. Have fun with yourself.
Book a massage.
Care shifts the focus to you instead of connection. Massage, manicure or other treatments make you feel and look fantastic.
Pretend until you get it.
Trust us for this. Even if you haven't forgotten yet, act like you forgot... At a certain point it will be realized. Go to the party and flirt with those you like, after a while you'll realize you're not pretending to be having fun, but you're actually really enjoying yourself.
Keep yourself busy. Work hard!
One of the difficult things about sharing is not having a friend to spend every day or night of the week. To occupy this space, make plans: arrange arrivals with your friends or start a new hobby. A photography course, dance, yoga or even volunteer work.
Don't stop yourself from crying.
Leave enough space for those few nights when you stay home and reflect on a lost connection. Give yourself an hour or two to get what you have in because it helps you heal. Just make sure you close it with something good, like a bathroom with a lot of bubbles or a comedy movie.
Turn on the computer.
Your friends may be a very good way to forget were yours, but don't charge them too much. When you start feeling bad, write in a diary or email about him you'll never take. NEVER.
Clean up your life.
Throw in his toiletitems. Send someone else the clothes he left in your house and collect all the gifts in a box. Don't throw them away right away because you can regret it later. As well as do a general cleanup. It'll help you clear your mind as well as make space for new things.
See reality in the eye.
Many women tend to idealize or demonize their former partners. If you focus on the fact that he was a piece of, you'll just get more bored. If you only remember how good he was, no other male will get to his level. That's why you're inventorying. Make a list of the evils and good he had as your partner.
Filloni të shihni për njerëz të rinj.
Daljet për të kërcyer apo për të flirtuar funksionojnë si rritës vetvlerësimi. Kur vjen puna për të dalë në një takim me dikë tjetër, thjesht jini të sigurta se jeni gati dhe se do të argëtoheni. Që domthenë nuk do ta merrni personale nëse gjërat mes jush nuk ecin.
Burimi: Cosmopolitan
