When a first meeting goes great, what in the world would prevent you from writing to him again for a second meeting? Of course the confusion and uncertainties are completely normal, but remember that the ice is broken and you are ready for round 2. Messages in the DM after the first meeting should be well thought out, as it risks the other person being "scared". So keep the conversation nice and start the efforts for the second meeting.
1. Suggest you do something together that you mentioned during the meeting.
A movie or an event that happens soon. A conversation that opens like this is completely natural.
2. Comment on something positive from that meeting.
Tell him what seemed interesting from that night for the person in front of the phone to get feedback. You can also comment on food, country or people around you and again look interesting.
3. Make it clear you want to meet again
Tell him clearly and without falling long. "We must repeat the meeting"-is the fairest sentence you can write. Don't forget the emoji.
4. Please their ego
Compliment him a little and do it by flirting.
5. Invite him for a second meeting.
Once he/she knows you want another meeting, it's invitation time. Don't wait too long to do it, nor do word games. Get out on the subject.
6. Continue a conversation you discussed even when you got out.
If the meeting went well, communication was interesting. Get caught up in some joke or theme that you've got most in mind and laugh at the DM again.
7. Send any links about a topic they are interested in
You know 2-3 things about her now, what she likes, hobbies and her/his interests. Send him something interesting and wait.
8. Thank them and tell them to let you know when they're free.
In doing so, you seem neither attached nor impatient nor fixed. Thank them for the company and get away, but let them realize it didn't close so much. You're waiting for the next conversation.
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