After a breakup we all found ourselves asking him the famous question: what happened? You thought you were so good and now what? Two foreigners who don't want to take different directions. The causes of separation can often seem murky and make you feel vague, but they're not that much. There are some very real reasons why people divide and more mainly, you find them on the list below.
He's taken a different direction.
Long ago you probably were very close to each other, laughed, traveled, written letters, loved... But at some point people start moving in different directions and destinations. Maybe you both as a partner realized that your future doesn't have it together. Although sometimes it doesn't look nice, life works like this: people change, things change... And this decision must be made by one of the partners, even though the mind and heart sometimes want different things.
You're looking for something else.
It's not necessary that he doesn't love you anymore or forget you for someone else. He may still love you, but he has other desires in life.
If some people are happier with other people, let them go. This is about your respect and love for yourself. At best, people love each other more by discovering more things, while at worst they end up with division.
You weren't the priority for him.
Sometimes he can say "yes" to a relationship because you asked him and he just didn't turn it down. There are also those guys who just want to have fun and don't want to have serious commitments because they're probably not ready. Maybe that's why your relationship could have been so beautiful. They're not dear to you: they just like the concept of being in a relationship and the idea of being in love. They are not even the right ones, so at the first moment they are given the opportunity, they jump off the ship.
He's lost his feelings.
Love is a feeling and like all feelings, it can fade. Sometimes this is for a considerable period of time, and sometimes it's only for a few days.
People like to experiment with new things: their sexual instinct requires me to always look for something better. That's why people get bored with something old.
Sometimes they break up even because they lack sexual attraction between them. For this reason, couples must update their fond memories together. Try new things in the bedroom, take a vacation, share your personal belongings before it's too late and the flame is out.
He's not happy with you.
From negative feelings, or debates, distrust, jealousy, disappointment can make him no longer happy in this relationship. Even though you had fond memories. That belongs to the past.
There may have been something more traumatic that you would like to forget as betrayal, unwanted pregnancy, parents disagree, you have different religions, etc. Sometimes when you've noticed from these debates that you tend to think more about your partner? Sometimes this leads to a new beginning and can be a test for your love.
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