Myth 1: What you are looking for in Pornhub is what you want in bed.
Truth: Porn is fantasy. Porn is created for your entertainment and enjoyment, but it does not mean that you want everything you see there to become a reality. For example, if you once saw a lesbian video, it does not make a woman gay, the same goes for men. Enjoy your time alone and explore your fantasies.
Myth 2: Sex is only good if it ends in an orgasm.
Truth: An orgasm is just a bonus, not the goal. Many people feel pressured to experience an orgasm to tell their partner that they are enjoying the experience. This pressure increases anxiety, diverts focus from feelings, and triggers negative thoughts. The feeling of pressure to have an orgasm in the end reduces the pleasure and likelihood of having an orgasm. The purpose of sex is pleasure! An orgasm does not mean that sex is good. But if you experience it ... very good for you.
Myth 3: All orgasms feel the same and should be an explosive experience.
Truth: There are many different types of orgasms. Just to name a few: clitoral, vaginal, anal, erogenous, combined ... the list goes on. Every orgasm feels a little different. For example, a clitoral orgasm feels more like a tingling sensation on the surface of the skin, while a vaginal orgasm pulsates the pelvic floor muscles around the vagina.
Myth 4: A woman turns on if she lubricates naturally.
Truth: A woman can be fully lit but not wet. There are many reasons why women do not get wet during sex moments. This may be due to medical reasons, the time of its cycle, the decrease in estrogen, etc. If this has happened to you, it is common. If this is constantly happening and causing pain during intercourse or challenges in your sex life, consult your gynecologist. Just in case, keep a lubricant in your drawer.
Myth 5: The bigger the penis, the better the sex.
Truth: Total myths! It has nothing to do with penis size; it has to do with how you use it. There is a social tendency that "bigger is better", but it is not necessarily so.
What matters is how you use your penis! Whatever the size of the penis, find positions that you and your partner can enjoy. Remember to stimulate all erogenous zones.
Sex is a physical and mental act. Challenge the myths you have heard, continue to educate yourself in your body and make sex conversation a routine.
Burimi: Psychology Today
