You finally made it! Fixation invited you to come out and now you are ready for a new page of your acquaintance. Of course, new encounters are accompanied by nervousness. How will the evening go? It all depends on everyone's attitude: the important thing is not to be shy and to be spontaneous! Enjoy the meeting, always remembering the tips below.
1. It is not necessary to impress necessarily
Let us choose for our meeting a place, an outfit that are familiar to us. For the other to like us and win our heart we must be ourselves and authentic: the anxiety of impressing will inevitably make us feel pretended, vulnerable, and tense all the time. It is better to frequent interesting places, or to dress a little more carefully, but without expecting this meeting to be a great meeting: this thing trains you for the "role".
2. This is not an "all or nothing" game
The success of the meeting is important, but not essential: if something goes wrong, it is not a disaster and it is not a sign that everything is lost. Let us feel free maybe even to make mistakes, we are putting ourselves in the game and it is normal not to be perfect!
3. Let's get an idea of ??what the person we are going to meet is like
Let us constantly train "to pay attention" to the emotional frequency of our interlocutors: for example, let us learn to understand from their behavior the emotional reactions to situations, as they will show the direction and tone to be held.
4. Not to be planned
Reality is not exactly as we could have imagined and an excessive effort to plan everything, gives you the impression that you do not have things under control, putting us in vain in anxiety. This only generates anxiety about the feeling that we do not have things under control. Remember, unplanned things are always (or almost) manageable.
Burimi: Pop Sugar
