There is nothing more beautiful than being polite, helping others, being grateful, and knowing how to behave. But like everything else in life, courtesy must be measured. If you exceed this limit, you may face negative effects and costs which you will pay again!
1. Say "forgive me" very soon!
Extremely kind people can say sorry for anything. Even when there is no need!
2. Your needs are never met!
Because you will not spoil the pleasure of others and in most cases you sacrifice your pleasure for them.
3. You feel powerless after every unwanted "yes" you give
Just to feel accepted and part of the group say "yes" even when you say "no". Practice the opposite.
4. You always find yourself doing things you would not do.
Social pressure, fear of rejection, etc. make you not oppose any activity that is part of the group, even if you do not like that action.
5. You "turn off" your own ideas!
For fear of dislike or other insecurities, you deprive the world of the chance to get acquainted with perhaps brilliant ideas.
6. Accepts any plan that comes up unexpectedly
Wanting to be polite, you forget to look at your agenda and accept without hesitation the first plan that comes your way.
7. Your inside has nothing to do with what you look like from the outside
You are two different people within one body. The things you say do not combine with what you actually think.
8. Avoid conflicts at any cost
You will not be part of debates, quarrels just to not upset the balance of a relationship for fear that someone will change their mind about you.
9. Attract people who always need something.
When you are more polite than you should inadvertently approach around you who know no boundaries and you should always be there to listen to their dramas.
10. People can even tell you rude things
Because you are gentle enough not to show him the place!
Source: Bustle
