Adolescents who have close and secure relationships with their families are more likely to be empathetic, that is, to show empathy for their peers, according to a new study.
When teens feel safe, supported, and connected to their parents or other adult caregivers, they are more likely to be sensitive to others.
"I do not think teens in particular like to be told what to do and I do not think it will work if they are told to be sensitive to others," Jessica Stern, lead author of the study, told CNN. "But what works is the fact that if you show them empathy, they will be able to pass it on to other people."
Stern's work relates to secure relationships which are important in social behaviors. It studies the parent-child relationship, known as the "relationship theory" or "attachment theory", which is based on the "idea that all human beings have a basic need for a relationship." we become over time, ”she added.
Adolescents who are more empathetic show lower levels of aggressive behavior and prejudice and are less likely to bully, Stern noted, and that is why understanding how relationships form empathy is important.
The expert advises parents and teachers to understand the necessity of empathy and to really invest in relationships with adolescents. Providing empathic behavior patterns, including treating others with kindness, respect, and support, can help teens acquire these behaviors, whether they are aware of it or not.
