"Communication is not just a form of seduction, but a precursor that lays the groundwork for a more meaningful, satisfying and pleasurable sex," sexologist Jess O'Reilly told Cosmopolitan.
But if you are a little embarrassed about a sexual conversation, do not worry. The best and easiest way to talk to your partner about sex is by asking questions.
Questions can be anything from excitement, masturbation, positions to sexual fantasies. Use your imagination. To make your job easier, here are some questions that can help you:
1. How do you like to masturbate?
2. Do you have a fantasy that you have always been curious about?
3. Do you have a celebrity with whom you fantasized about having sex?
4. How is sex ideal for you?
5. What is the most "wild" place where you have / will have sex?
6. What porn do you prefer?
7. When do you feel most attractive?
8. Which word "dirty" excites you?
9. What do you think about when you masturbate?
10. What is something you have always wanted to try but hesitated about?
11. What makes you feel better?
12. What is one of our (sexual) moments that is your favorite?
13. Will you try any new positions?
14. What is your favorite place to kiss?
15. What is your favorite place to kiss me?
16. Do you have any favorite sex toys? (If not, would you like to have one?)
17. What has been the most "fiery" sexual dream?
18. Do you like "wild" sex?
19. What is your favorite place to have sex?
20. Is there something you do not like when I do?
