Falling in love is wonderful - but it darkens our eyes and we do not understand whether we are on the right path or not. In reality, understanding whether the relationship you are in will last or not is difficult, so Gary W Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor of psychology at Monmouth University, created a list of 15 questions that help couples understand the relationship. their will be fruitful or not.
Lewandowski said he decided to create a list because he was often asked "how do I know I'm with the right person." According to him, if you answer 'yes' to these questions, chances are you are with the right person.
1. Do you make each other better people?
2. Do you talk openly about your feelings, rely on each other, stay close to each other and do not worry that your partner leaves you suddenly?
3. Do you accept each other as you are, without trying to change them?
4. When you have disagreements, do you communicate respectfully, without any sign of negativity or contempt?
5. Are power, decision-making and influence equally shared in your relationship?
6. Is your partner your best friend and vice versa?
7. Do you think more about "us" than "me" and "you"?
8. Would you trust each other with social network passwords and bank accounts?
9. Do you have good impressions of each other - beyond extraordinarily positive and sugary thoughts?
10. Does your company think you have an enviable relationship?
11. Is it free from dangers such as jealousy, betrayal, and abusive behavior?
12. Do you share the same values ??when it comes to religion, politics, the importance of marriage, the desire to have or not to have children, and the way of parenting?
13. Are you willing to sacrifice your personal needs, desires, and goals for one another?
14. Do you have emotionally stable personalities?
15. Do you fit in sexually with each other?
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