You have to quarrel properly!
If you and your partner face quarrels with each other in a self-destructive way - shouting, screaming, cursing with dirty words - studies show that there is a high probability that after some time you will divorce. A healthy relationship is one in which conflicts in the couple are resolved constructively: debate right, with the right arguments, and find the right time to let go of resentment. You need to pay attention to each other's feelings.
Very, very confident
Before you get married, your relationship needs to be built on trust. This means, that when he goes out with his friends, you do not start hypothesizing with friends what he might be doing. You need to be safe! Faith is the essence: building a relationship without trust is like walking barefoot.
Love your partner's flaws too
You have known the best side of your partner from the beginning, but when it comes to love the issue is to love someone even in his worst moments. The most important thing before you get married is to spend enough time together to get to know each other down to the deepest fears, insecurities, temperament, things he has regretted and all the parts that make up his darkest sides. .
Over time - when your baby cries, sleepless nights, the flu, financial stress, work stress, and frustrations you get from each other - unpleasant shadows will fall on your relationship. The belief that you will be close to each other even in the most difficult moments, when each will highlight their weaknesses.
Open communication
You do not have to talk incessantly, but every time you talk, you have to confess everything you hold inside. You need to have a free communication. Many marriages are poisoned by a lack of good communication, which resolves conflicts through arguments without escalating the situation. You need to stay together as long as possible before you get married, so that you have at least one major conflict from which you can emerge victorious together.
Source: Brides
