There's a moment every spring when you suddenly find yourself going out more often, dressing better, replying to messages faster... and tolerating more confusion than you would in January.
Coincidence? NO!
Spring is the season when we are more social, more open, and less rational. The sun does its thing, serotonin and dopamine do their thing, and you suddenly think: "it's okay, let's see where it goes" even when you know very well that it's not going anywhere.
This is how what is called situationship today is born ! It is that non-concrete relationship, without titles, without status, without clarity, that relationship that feels good in the moment, but has no direction and usually there is a lack of desire and will on one side to give it direction. There is flirting, there is chemistry, there is “let's hang out ”, but there is no “what are we?” .
Now, what happens when spring comes? The number of those who don't like to ask this question increases.
A drink after work, a spontaneous weekend, new people, new energy. No one wants to sit down and discuss deep feelings when they're just starting to enjoy life after winter. Everyone wants something light. And "light" very often translates to "vague."
The problem? You might think you're in for something "fun," while emotionally you're getting deeper into it than you planned.
The next problem? How to avoid it without becoming boring!
Don't just go by the vibe. Energy can be nice, but it can also be deceiving. If someone is always "let's see and do," you usually know what they mean. Act on how you feel, but don't romanticize the confusion.
Above all: if you feel a little insecure even when things look good, it's usually your intuition telling you that this isn't as healthy as it seems.
However, not every situationship is a problem. Sometimes it's just a phase. A lighthearted fling, a nice flirtation, a near-relationship that wasn't meant to become more.
Maybe that's the whole idea of ??spring: not everything has to turn into something serious.
Just make sure you're not losing yourself in something you don't even know what it is. So, get some fresh air, take your IQOS to accompany you in reflective moments, of course if you're a user, remember that autumn is coming soon, and make sure you make the right decisions.
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