Why didn't it work the first time?
If your ex asks you to get back together or you just think you made a mistake that was shared, you should understand exactly why you broke up in the first place. Analyze whether the reason you broke up will come to be a problem for you or not.
What are the reasons you shouldn't be reconnected?
In many cases, when one partner is violent, the other suffers great decreases in self-confidence and begins to think that no one can ever love him. Another wrong reason to get back with someone is jealousy. Don't let that feeling lead you.
What are the good reasons to get back with him?
In most cases, successful reunions occur after divisions that have the wrong time or distance as a cause. If this is your case and think your ex is worth it, you have a good case ahead. But if you're not ready to commit to him like the first time, you better give up.
Do you have to spend some time alone before you return to the relationship?
Feeling someone's absence after a breakup is normal. But before you rush to jump into your ex's arms, it's better to take some time for yourself to clarify your thoughts.
What should I do after we get back together?
In order to have a healthy bond, you must forgive, forget and move forward. Forgiveness means accepting what happened the first time and if it was his fault, don't punch him in the face whenever you have a disagreement.
Burimi: Women's Health
