Meeting new people in a period like this is a challenge in itself. Evening flirtations in bars are reduced and consequently the first meetings as well. Acquaintances during Covid require special attention as beyond difficult conditions we have to work with ourselves in relation to the person in front of us.
1. If you feel anxious, remember that you are not alone.
We are in the middle of a pandemic and the weather has not been on our side so far, so it is very normal not to feel in the mood all the time. The important thing is to be honest with yourself. Do not rush from the surrounding conditions, just to drown out the loneliness that is felt even more during this period.
2. Make sure you are yourself
Start by wearing something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. For some it means buying new clothes and make up. Whatever your choice, just do not give up on what makes you feel comfortable.
3. Then, think about what kind of meeting would make you feel good.
In other words: the place! Are you ready to meet him live or better virtually for a while? Although experts say it is best to start with virtual meetings for your own safety. Maintain health and at the same time have time to decide if you want (or not) to know him personally.
4. Do not be pressured to do things you would not do
Do not leave that meeting if you start from other ideas that do not include consent to him / her. Even if they insist, if you do not feel any interest say no. Boundaries must be respected or otherwise the meeting may be canceled.
5. If you decide to meet live, keep in mind that:
# 1. Put on a mask
# 2. Keep as much physical distance as you can
# 3. Meet outdoors
# 4. Avoid kissing / hugging
Source: Health Line
