One of the most common reasons why people divorce is even simpler: Communication. The lack of direct communication between a couple gradually brings about a series of problems, which eventually culminate in a separation or in the worst case in a divorce.
There are some key points of discussion that a couple should discuss before deciding to take the important step of crowning a relationship:
1. How will finances be combined?
2. What are your debts?
3. How will we save for the pension?
4. Are you planning to have children?
5. What will we do if we do not have the opportunity to have children?
6. How will we divide the housework / daily chores?
7. What do you consider "betrayal"?
8. What are your dreams and plans for the future?
9. What are the specific actions you will not tolerate after marriage?
10. How will we care for our parents?
11. What is your health and mental and family health history?
12. Where do you plan to live?
13. How much time do you want to spend normally together?
14. What are your expectations for our social lives?
15. What is / will be the relationship with the future father-in-law?
Burimi: Psychology Today, Bright Side