No matter what well-meaning family or friends may say, it is true that all couples need space and time. It is important to have a life of your own, outside of the relationship.
However, it is not always easy to know when to give space to him / her, or when to ask for space.
If you are used to staying together 24/7, it may seem strange to make separate plans or do some things yourself.
Spending time away from each other does not mean that you are unhappy or upset. It simply shows that in addition to being in a relationship, we are also individual people.
Below, find some signs that there may be a little more space between you:
1. Feel that your partner has rapid mood swings and get nervous quickly, about small things.
2. He / she starts arguments and debates for no particular reason.
3. It seems as if your partner no longer has any personal opinion, as they rely on everything for you.
4. He / she likes only what you like.
5. Body language appears closed. He / she no longer kisses you by surprise, he / she is no longer as approachable as before.
6. You have become almost dependent on each other and can do nothing without each other's approval.
7. He / she has changed his / her sleep schedule. They can go to bed later or wake up earlier as a way to "be a little alone".
8. I mbron hobitë e tij/ e saj dhe përpiqet mos t’ju bëjë pjesë të tyre. Është një mënyrë për t’ju thënë se ka nevojë për pak hapësirë.
9. Mund të ketë disa probleme personale, financiare apo familjare, që bëjnë që ai/ajo të kërkojë kohë për t’i zgjidhur.
10. Partneri/ja është më i/e stresuar se zakonisht.
11. Keni vënë re ndryshime të caktuara në sjelljen e tij/saj. Për shembull, nëse punon shumë gjatë javës, mund të dojë ta ketë të premten në mbrëmje vetëm për vete.
12. Ndjeni sikur diçka ka ngecur.
13. Ai/ajo thotë “Kam nevojë për 1 minutë kohë” ose diçka të ngjashme, gjatë një debati.
14. Nuk e shpreh se ka nevojë për hapësirë, por ju mund të dalloni diçka nga situata të caktuara.
15. Jep përgjigje të shkurtra.
16. Try to show you that he needs space through small things. For example, when you offer to accompany him to the supermarket, he / she says: "I will be late, there is a queue" etc.
17. It does not indicate where it is going, where it was.
18. It is calmer than usual.
19. Focus only on the negative things, pointing out the insecurities you may have.
It is normal to need space in a connection. To do this properly, communication is important.
Source: Bustle
