Someone had a passion for dancing and decided to take part in "Just Dance", but instead of being judged on her (un) ability in dancing, the discussion turned to delicate, personal issues, and went beyond arrogance.
Bela, 40, and aerobic gymnastics champion, faced a dance challenge with Herisa, a girl who must be about two decades younger than she is in age; a showdown in which Albi Nako, as a member of the jury, described the 40-year-old as "a typical character in those movies, for example, 'Planet of the Apes", before asking her about her age. Referring to science fiction films based on French writer Pierre Boulle's "Planet of the Apes", Nako placed Bela in an inferior position alongside other young participants.
"Anyway compliments [on age]," he continued. "But I think competing with these young people, without limiting your energy, I think you are at an age where it is better to get married and have children than to continue here."
His assessment, based on age, is inappropriate as long as at the start of the program it was said that none of the competitors came from the rigorous, classical ballet school, but the work and talent led them to Top Channel studios. Having said that, Albi Nako, as a professional and a man of the field who knows more than anyone else that the strength and energy of muscles in jumping, as in many other professions, also depends on age, should have been more careful with the comments. So it would be more graceful for the 40-year-old to be appreciated for her energy, regardless of age, and for the fact that, (regardless of age) she decided to pursue an early dream of hers.
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Megjithatë, juria shërben për të ndarë shapin nga sheqeri dhe nëse Nako mendon se 40-vjeçarja është në kushte inferioriteti vendosur në një “planet majmunësh”, patjetër që është mendimi i tij. Me fjalë të tjera, nëse ajo nuk di të kërcejë, nuk mund të favorizohet thjesht e vetëm nga mosha. Por mosha dhe zgjedhje personale si martesa dhe fëmijët nuk janë çështje për diskutim dhe këtu thellohet më tepër problemi.
Balerini dhe koreografi “i sugjeroi” – pa qenë nevoja – që ajo të martohej dhe bënte fëmijë, një koment që jo vetëm nuk i takon, por ngjason si ato frazat tipike të njerëzve të fisit kur dikush shkon afër të tridhjetave dhe nuk është martuar ende. Martesa dhe vendimi për të bërë fëmijë janë çështje delikate, komplekse dhe mbi të gjitha personale dhe Nako, 45 vjeç dhe pa fëmijë, duhet ta dijë këtë.
As if the phrase said perhaps without harm, but nevertheless inappropriate, to the ironic question of the 40-year-old, "You tell me why I do not get married and have children, do you?", Nako answered with an even more comment indecent. "Do not worry about me because I have a three-phase machine, I will have children even 80 years old. OK? If you see yourself, ”he felt the need to point out that, in other words, biologically men have all the conditions to have children, even 80 years old.
Albi, one of the best choreographers and dancers we have, is known for his harsh comments because he seeks perfection, but that does not justify the arrogance shown in this Sunday episode where the comments were many things besides professional.
