Not all relationships need to be finalized with something dramatic to end. If you start to see the seemingly insignificant problem that bothers you, or you realize that you are not as happy as before, maybe your relationship is starting to end.
A team of psychotherapists, relationship experts and mental health experts identify 20 signs that may be indicative of a relationship that is not going well:
1 - You are stuck in a routine and do nothing to "revive the spark".
2 - You are no longer as intimate as before.
3 - You are never in the mood to do something.
4 - You are spending a lot of time away from each other.
5 - Dream of being single
6 - Do you want to go out with other people (dating)
7 - Your partner annoys you regularly. Their vices or something, surprises are bothering you a lot.
8 - Grind all the time.
9 - You have stopped discussing and even quarrels between you are accompanied by silence and sighing.
10 - It seems like you can not choose anything that does not go between you.
11 - You are looking for reasons to separate
12 - Do not talk to each other as before. Now conversations are accompanied by frustrating, passive-aggressive tones that make people feel unwell.
13 - Share the good news with other people before you tell him / her
14 - You started telling some "white lies" to friends and removed as if you had the perfect relationship. This would not be necessary if the relationship were at least healthy, because "perfection" probably does not exist.
15 - Even when you are with each other, it seems like you are not there. You lack the attention and concentration to be together.
16 - Sometimes, pretend you were asleep or you suddenly fell asleep
17 - You no longer feel like behaving or acting like yourself
18 - He / she bullies / bullies you in a bullying way.
19 - Find excuses not to meet or stay away from them.
20 - You started to despise him. Do you feel like your partner is below you? Have you started to catch yourself saying bad words about him?
If you notice these signs and think your relationship is breaking down, talk to your partner. It may be something you can turn away from if you choose it together, but it can also mean it's time to move on.
Source: Bustle
