In a society that constantly prioritizes romantic relationships, where a woman's worth is often measured by whether she has a partner or has built a family, friendship between women is often overshadowed. And yet, it is precisely there when everything else collapses. It is what keeps you on your feet, when you yourself do not have the strength to stand up. It is the voice that tells you the truth without sugarcoating it, with the love and courage that only a true friend can have.
It doesn't take much for two women to form a deep emotional connection with each other. All it takes is a sincere conversation, or an unexpected hug. The most lasting friendships are often born in these simple moments. Women have the ability to see each other through the cracks. They know when to be silent, when to speak up, when to "open your eyes" with the right word, and when to simply let you do what you want, without judgment.
The presence of a friend is not just a luxury of modern life. It is a necessity. It is healing. Those moments when you laugh until your eyes water, when one tells the other “I understand,” when you send a text message for no particular reason, are pure forms of love. And when you are lucky enough to have someone like that in your life, you realize that love doesn’t always come with promises or kisses. Sometimes, it comes with an extended hand, a warm coffee, an “I’m here.”
If you've drifted away from a friend who was once a part of your soul, take the first step. Tell them you miss them. If you have someone who has always been there for you, tell them how much you appreciate them. If you're feeling lonely, give yourself permission to open up and meet a new friend.
Because at the end of the day, we don't always remember the words that were said or the events that happened. But we always remember how they made us feel. And true friends have a special way of making us feel less alone, more understood, more human, and stronger.
Because love between women is a quiet, deep, and unbreakable form of belonging. And when things get tough, it's one of the most sacred things we can have.
Note: If you have a friend you want to pick up where you left off, start with this article.
Source: Marie Claire
