An unusual case addressed publicly in "Albanian Sunday" - where two brothers invited the sister to give their support over her divorce - brought back to the media attention the importance of helping family and social circle for someone who is in the process of divorce or has just divorced.
Despite the fact that divorce is no longer taboo in our society, it must be said that on the other hand, people in the divorce process do not always find the support they deserve, even in the worst cases, they are told not to divorce "for the sake of the family". The case presented in "Albanian Sunday" conveyed amid the emotions of the protagonists the importance of helping people facing such a drama.
Below is a list of tips compiled by field professionals for Naked Divorce.
1. Do not try to give advice. Telling a divorced person what to do is ridiculous. Sentences such as "You need time", "You should not go out with someone now", "When I got divorced ...", "I knew I would divorce, I would not get married", etc. your conversations. People appreciate silence.
2. Ftoje për kafe ose për t’u bashkuar me ju në aktivitete të ndryshme. Njerëzit e sapo ndarë mund të ndihen disi të humbur. Ata kanë nevojë për ndërveprim me miqtë dhe familjarët. Edhe një orë e gjysmë në ditë është e dobishme.
3. Përqafoje. Mendoni se sa i fuqishëm është një përqafim.
4. Sigurohuni që të besojë te ju. Është gjithmonë mirë që këta njerëz të dinë ku mund të drejtohen për ndihmë.
5. Mos fol keq për ish-partnerin/en. Nuk është e nevojshme. Nëse dikush duhet të nxjerrë inatin, janë ata që divorcohen, jo ju. Ju thjesht dëgjoni dhe ofroni mbështetje.
6. Ofrohuni për ndihmë. Nëse ai/ajo ka një fëmijë të vogël dhe ju jeni të lirë, mund t’i ofroni ndihmën tuaj.
7. Donate books or suggest movies. Write a letter. Or do what you can to make him / her feel better.
8. Discuss something more positive together. This will calm him down.
9. Give it the time it needs. Everyone needs to experience emotions in their own way. Every divorce is different so do not make comparisons.
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