It does not matter who you are, where you come from, or how old you are, as long as you are in a relationship, meeting your future father-in-law for the first time will always be embarrassing.
We often say that there are no recipes for a certain way of behaving (and it is true), but there are some elements that must be followed, so that the first impression is the right one.
First, you do not have to worry too much about proving to them how much you are worth. Always think that your partner has chosen you and it is his opinion that matters.
Anyway, respect is above all, so take a look at the list of things to keep in mind before meeting future parents-in-law.
1.
Accept to meet them from the first invitation. They will appreciate your readiness.
2.
If you see that dinner is being prepared, never forget to give your help.
3.
Make a compliment. For food, home or how good parents are.
4.
Before you meet them, remember to learn everything they like. What are their hobbies and interests.
5.
Show with gestures how much you appreciate their son / daughter.
What not to do?
1.
Try to avoid serious discussions such as political or religious ones.
2.
Do not overdo it before the meeting. Everything should go naturally.
3.
Do not try to remove yourself as someone you are not. The situation can get out of control.
4.
Be careful not to drink too much.
5.
If you are going to sleep in their house after dinner, do not take it for granted that you will share the bed with your partner. Every family has its rules.
Source: The Independent
