Flirting does not come easily to everyone. Sometimes, even the most confident people will have a shudder or confusion in front of someone they like.
Here are 12 tips to best master the art of flirting and get the attention you want:
# 1 - "Pretend" as if you have self-confidence
Of course, to say "Be confident" sounds like a cliché, because after all, it is. If you do not feel completely confident or self-confident in front of someone important to you, start "acting". Think of yourself as someone with power, as a person who establishes calmness when passing through the room and eventually, that will really happen. Show your confidence in small details, such as clothing, walking, accessories, etc.
# 2 - Show that you are interested in their lives
Everyone loves a compliment and also, most people want to talk about themselves. Therefore, in a conversation with him, give him the chance to express himself, his life or what he intends to say. If you get the chance to talk to him, do not miss this opportunity. Ask lots of questions about their lives and show that you are really interested. They will appreciate your curiosity. Make sure the questions come naturally and not as if you are "questioning" them.
# 3 - Focus on your lips
Sounds ridiculous, but it actually works. Keep a lip gloss in your bag and when you see it, glide lightly on your lips. They will dream about those lips all day long.
# 4 - Smile and greet when you see him in the hallways or elsewhere
Maybe now, the idea of ??this may seem scary, but once you do, you will feel much more liberated. Think you are just telling, the basic principles of etiquette and nothing more than that. Gather yourself up and say "let's go" before you ever see him again.
# 5 - Ignore it, but not for long
Does it contradict the above point a bit? Well, flirting is as simple as it is complex.
We are not suggesting ignoring you forever, until you forget each other, but in a group of friends, do not give all your attention to him / her, as this will make him / her think that he / she is "in control" or that he / she is go after him / her ”. You need to let him know that you are interested, but not that you are "melting for him".
# 6 - Perfect the crash trick
"Accidentally" you collide with a crowd, or get confused with each other. "Oh, forgive me ..."
Ky “aksident” i lezetshëm mund të jetë fillimi i një bisede të këndshme.
#7 – Lëreni t’ju “kapë mat”, teksa i shihni
Zakonisht, kur dikush ju kap duke vështruar, ju shikoni larg shpejt në mënyrë që ata të mos e kuptojnë se ju ja keni ngulur sytë. Provoni të bëni diçka ndryshe, sado e frikshme mund të duket. Herës tjetër që ai do t’ju zërë mat duke e vështruar, buzëqeshini lehtë dhe përpiquni mos ta lëvizni kokën me shpejtësinë e erës. Kjo do të tregojë që keni besim në vete dhe me siguri, do ta bëëj atë të afrohet dhe t’ju flasë.
#8 – Jepini rëndësi veshjes së tyre
Nëse ata kanë veshur një fanellë sportive apo këmishë, pyetini për këtë. Kjo do t'ju bëjë të dukeni të sinqertë dhe të interesuar për jetën e tyre dhe do të fillojë një bisedë të këndshme ku mund të mësoni më shumë për njëri-tjetrin.
#9 – Ndonjëherë, duhet të jeni të qartë e të dukshëm, pa nënkuptime
Supozojmë se u ulët gabimisht në vendin e tij. Kërkoni një falje të ekzagjeruar, duke i treguar se qartazi po flirtoni me të.
#10 – Prezantojini mikun tuaj
Nëse keni shumë frikë të filloni një shoqëri të vetme, sillni shoqen/shokun tuaj me vete dhe prezantojeni atë. Kjo mund të duket e çuditshme, por ndonjëherë është më e lehtë t'i afrohesh një personi, kur nuk je vetëm.
#11 - Flirtoni para se t’i shihni
Shkruajini diçka ngacmuese në mesazhe, sepse për më e tepër, flirtimi virtual është edhe më i lehtë. Kështu “përgatisni” terrenin, kur të shiheni në të vërtetë.
#12 - Filloni me diçka të butë për të thyer akullin
It's time to dump her and move on. Avoid such expressions and try to be yourself. Start the conversation with a simple compliment or greeting, there is no need to start with a poetic expression.
Lastly, it's important to know that you should never pretend, because if someone does not like you for who you are, a fake version of you will not fix anything.
Source: Seventeen
