In a normal relationship, quarrels are even more normal. Every couple has their ups and downs, and the fact that sometimes we get nervous about our partner happens because we know that he / she will love us no matter what.
However, even in the toughest of fights, it is a word that you should never allow yourself to use, unless it is well thought out. It is about the word "Divorc".
The moment you take that word out of your mouth, you can't turn it back. Using it can have a final impact on your marriage causing irreparable damage. Here's why:
It's manipulative
It is generally used to get the other party to rest and this is manipulation.
Causes stress and anxiety
Because the first impact is that of an ultimatum. And no one loves ultimatums and even more so from a person who is supposed to love you more than anyone in the world.
It makes the partner really consider the divorce
If your partner often hears this word from you, then you can expect the same reaction and perhaps more serious.
It's a low blow
A marriage based on threats and manipulations will never be a happy marriage.
Source: Women's Health
