You may think that a lie or a little secret will not ruin your partner's work or relationship, but beware! Relationship experts say there are some delicate things you can never hide from your partner if you want a relationship and then a healthy marriage.
# 1. Your sexual stories
Of course you can avoid the details because you don't force anyone to go into detail. With your current partner you can discuss the concerns related to your previous sex life, the way experiences have affected you and your well-being. Even if you have had a pregnancy history or abortion, it is best not to keep it a secret. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person.
# 2. Diseases you face
It is not healthy, among other things, to hide from your partner a disease from which you suffer. If you have or have had a health problem and are afraid of your partner's reaction so don't tell him, think wrong. You owe it to the person you are going to spend your life with to be honest. Sharing such problems (which are perfectly normal) also helps improve your current health.
# 3. How do you really spend your money?
He needs to know if his wife?s biggest obsession is shoes or bags, as only then will you be able to avoid those unexpected hassles that come when surprise purchases are discovered.
# 4. With whom he spends most of his time
If your partner does not like your social group, you can discuss this and continue to meet them, but if you hide this fact and start meeting secretly, this is a problem. Such an action shows that you do not take into account the opinion and approval of the person you have in your arms.
# 5. Problems at work
By hiding debates, stress, and anything else that bothers your partner at work, it's just making things worse. The situation will be clarified if you share the problems of working with the person closest to you. The opposite will happen if you keep it a secret. In addition to work stress, another concern will be added: the connection!
# 6. Serious past connections
You may think that you are not making any mistakes by hiding it, but after 7 years your past love appears in front of you and your spouse will not like the situation at all. Discuss past relationships so that no one is surprised by a visit or phone call from the former.
Source: Brides
