1. Are you sure or just sharing your teeth?
Sharing may be the right choice, but it is almost always the most painful choice. If you think you should go back to theirs, ask yourself: Was separation a mistake or am I just heartbroken now? If you are simply suffering for the moment but know that separation was the right choice, do not return.
2. What would you say to a close friend if he was in the same position?
True, what happens between a couple remains between them, but it's worth asking yourself what you would say in this case if your close friend were in your country. Was it a sudden or premeditated split? Feeling remorseful or liberated? We tend to treat our friends with more compassion than we treat ourselves, so we do well to listen to the advice we give them.
3. How are your problems repaired and are you ready to repair them?
Suppose you want to come back with them and the ex will come back with you. With you, in the new connection, you also carry the problem that led you to break up. Are you willing to work together to make it great?
4. Do you see the situation clearly?
Take a week only. Then another week. Then another. You need the time needed to clear your eyes and see the situation clearly. Only in this way will you know if you want to come back to being because it's the right thing or the simplest thing.
5. What scares you?
When you let go of the fear of ruling the choices you make in life, you simply diminish and diminish as a person until you are completely gone.
Adapted from Man Repeller
