When you read about Robert Berisha 's strange , not to say scandalous, statements about women, it is certainly impossible not to regret the fact that there are still public figures who openly express themselves without thinking twice what they are saying. . However subjective this finding may be, I have to say it is even more terrifying when you hear how women talk about women, girls about girls.
Today in " Invitation to Five " (Tuesday, January 28th), stylist Anisa Haroku and culture journalist Jetona Kocibelli talked with moderator Bieta Sulo about Albanian designers like Valdrin Sahiti and Lia Stublla, who touched on the Grammy red carpet Awards. The whole conversation goes on, until the moment Beyoncé's dress is commented. Or better yet: Beyoncé's body.
At one point, after stylist Anisa Haroku praised Valdrin's work but also stressed that the figure Beyoncé represents, Bieta Sulo pointed out that Beyoncé (I am quoting) is healthy. So it's not like mannequin.
"It's definitely Beyoncé, but when you look at the dress on the mannequin with that waist so perfect and of course Beyoncé is beautiful, but she's very healthy. Maybe if we were to see someone else who wouldn't be Beyoncé we would say 'that's what this is.'
I find it impossible to understand why Beyoncé, or anyone, should be compared to mannequins? What does it mean to be ?healthy?? Which should weaken? That doesn't fit the dress well? As if that wasn't enough, following the conversation, stylist Haroku said:
"The moment we take this photo off our head and come up with another one, I guarantee that it wouldn't have the impact this red dress has had. She's absolutely gorgeous, but maybe Beyoncé is a little more than enough to wear a satin thing. Satin is terribly delicate, in cuts, in stitches. However it is very beautiful. ?
At the conclusion of the conversation, Bieta added:
?To me, even I was saying that the dress is much, much nicer than Beyoncé's body, which we are probably used to seeing in more perfect lines. Here it looked pretty, pretty packed. "
So, in 2020, at a time when there is a growing emphasis on the fact that there are no standards when it comes to women's bodies, in a television studio, "how much Beyoncé was healthy" is discussed.
Of course I am aware that Beyoncé will not see the interview and will continue to be comfortable with her body, as she said in August 2019 for Vogue, where she stated that she has little belly left from pregnancy and no she intends to remove it because she thinks "it is more important for women and men to see and appreciate the beauty in their natural body." However disturbing is the talk of the "perfect waist", "being more comfortable than necessary" and "satin cannot be worn by anyone" in a television studio, at a time when the world is trying to break away from "standards" Of beauty set for women's body. Not to mention relatively small companies like SecondLove or Savage x Fenty destroyed an empire like Victoria's Secret.
Have you noticed that there is always a "lot" to everything when it comes to women? Too long, too short, too weak, too fat, too much and so on. Can we let girls and women be whatever the fuck they want?
