Robert Berisha, during an interview for "Prive" made the ugliest statement we could hear on screen today, in 2020. In these times when the world is trying to give a voice to women through its works, to contribute to gender equality and to remove labeling as "fragile beings", Robert comes in and gives terrible masculine advice.
Speaking about his song "The Lover" and the misunderstandings that the title caused, Robert took care to stop the women saying that "they were hotter with the singer".
"For myself, I have no lovers. Those who have lovers and have wives ... that in this case women can get angry with me," he said at first, and though no one asked for an opinion he advised women "to men guarded. "
"Save the men, stay ready, so that the job does not get enough for them to get lovers. I think that a successful man who sees his wife well, who has all the benefits his wife and children also have, what is the problem with having a boyfriend?"
Initially, Robert and everyone else who thinks like him should know that women are not shepherds guarding the sheep in order to avoid the flock. No one has to guard anyone! According to Berisha, if a man is okay with his wife and children and meets all of them there may be a romance out of wedlock.
Adultery has existed since human creation and will always exist, but the way it is handled is low. Who told Robert that a woman who decides to marry a loving man is only content with what he brings home and the pretentious "correctness" of a man who, on the other hand, is unfaithful ?! Such problems in the couple are very subtle and there are no prescriptions prescribed, more so such messages. Anyway, wait to hear that there's more.
"Nothing less, Robert says. Raise kids, go on holiday, eat, drink, get ready and maybe he doesn't increase the number of mistresses. The more mistakes you make at home, the more mistresses increase. number, omit it at all. It all depends on you. That was my message to women. "
So "unless you make mistakes, men will not betray you." Another terrible sentence! In what he says, Robert treats his wife as a housekeeper, who only has to laugh at the man, raise the children, enjoy what he gives her and pray in the evening that her husband won't see anyone else. Or at least, not to see much else. In no way did he treat the person these men choose, as a life partner, as a respectable woman, and as the mother of his children, who tomorrow will become integrated citizens. For Robert, a good woman, closes her eyes, does not hear or speak.
Such statements take us back to where they were and make us realize how much work still needs to be done to change a concept like this (which only Robert Berisha has). As a first step, such denunciatory statements should not be allowed to be broadcast at all.
