If you've been in a relationship at least once, you know that there are some questions that have the power to spark a hassle. As you can imagine, we are talking about those questions that are considered irritating / inappropriate / unnecessary by the partner. What are the questions men hate? Get to know it once and for all!
1. How much do you earn?
There is nothing wrong with knowing how ambitious a man is in front of you, but be careful. A man hates to ask "how much do you have a salary". If you think a little longer, you will get the answer very quickly!
2. What did your ex-girlfriend look like? It was good?
Or even worse 'better than me?' It's normal to be curious, but he can feel tense, above all if his previous connection was serious. According to liaison experts, such topics should be avoided, but be smart and get information in other ways. For example, you know that the two have been on holiday together in Italy, ask about Italy and the culture there, so he will extract information about his past and hopefully you will not feel bad when reminding yourself that he has had a life before you.
3. Are we connected?
No one will ask this question, especially at the beginning of an acquaintance. Men step out of commitment, they are like children, while women think longer about love, marriage, eternal happiness. Men are told to be strong, independent, needing no one, not crying, to be stoic. But in any connection it is important to be at the same wavelength, so this question should be asked. Instead try saying 'what are we?' in a safe tone, without looking negative or needy.
4. Where do you see us after five years?
This is not a question you should ask your partner because it is very stressful, but if you are in a long and consolidated relationship the time will come for you to do so. But refresh it a bit as a question. Ask him about his goals in life, where he will live, what his career plan is. This is a good way to discover his plans in life and if you are part of it.
5. When will I meet your parents?
This question is a delicate one, above all depending on the relationship your partner has with the parents. If they haven't had a really good relationship, don't expect to see his parents soon. If their relationship is close, almost social, then you can expect to meet them. But introduce them to yours first, so he realizes that the moment has come.
