At the beginning of the link, that first three months when everything is fine, whoever follows and who doesn't follow on Instagram is no conversation at all. You are too busy falling in love with such trivia. As time goes by, a disturbing number of backs, breasts, backs and breasts and provocative poses pop up on your boyfriend's Instagram. Why do you follow these types? Why meadow eyes constantly on their profiles? Why does this fact make you feel so bad?
This problem arose with time (of Instagram). The guys say that Instagram is stupid and pointless, so why not spend time on it looking at nice things and information on their favorite team. They are simple animals, they like two or three things and focus on it. In their minds, answering the question "why do you follow all this when * va?" With "why not?" Is enough.
But for girls it is not. However, before we ask why he follows them, we need to ask ourselves why we react so when we find out that he follows beautiful girls on Instagram.
The first and most common reason is jealousy. You can't remember that he sees other bodies, likes others, fantasizes about them, maybe even masturbates with their photos. Most likely, you also banned porn. Or more accurately, you have attempted. People fantasize and think of other people that they find attractive. It is simply naivve to seek total physical and mental monogamy. So when you order her to stop following other girls on Instagram because you're jealous, she simply paves the way for lying because it's as safe as the sunlight that will manually search their profiles and see everything to see.
The second reason is uncertainty. Instagram models are all stars. They have the perfect face, filled where they are, skinny where they should, know how to pose, get attention, be seduced. After all, they are worshiped by hundreds of thousands of people, why not be worshiped by your loved one? You will never be like them, but this is not a bad thing. You are a normal woman who has no filters, FaceTune and who understands what to do when sitting in front of your boyfriend. Remember when we said that Instagram is an idiot? We had it seriously. Aside from the idiot, it is also a big lie, as you may have noticed from the photos you post, that are always curated and on the verge of being perfect. You certainly feel insecure in real life.
When he follows other almost naked girls on Instagram, he also shows disrespect to you and unfortunately, that disrespect is all the more public. Anyone can take a look at your boyfriend's profile and find out that Riley Reid is following you, your aunt, and Ana Cheri. What a shame.
If you can live with all these negative emotions, keep silent and move on. If not, there are two possibilities. You can first work with yourself to understand why you are jealous of a woman who lives in Los Angeles and will never exchange with your boyfriend, why you feel insecure when clearly he chooses you every day, why do you care about the opinions of others when you are very good to each other. A little emotional maturity would do no harm to anyone.
If you are not ready for this conversation with yourself, talk to your boyfriend. Explain as clearly as possible how you feel and why when you see him following semi-nude models on Instagram. If you explain it well, he will offer to remove it himself. Otherwise, you will ask for it. The only intention is for this conversation not to end in hassle. Getting into Chantel Jeffries is the highlight.
