Good communication in a relationship runs parallel to healthy intimacy. Everyone knows how good sex strengthens the relationship. The latter often shows what goes wrong with your connection.
How to understand this ?! Through 5 relatively ~ alarming ~ signs that may have happened to you in bed and you just didn't notice.
Eye contact is lost!
Sex is an act that requires physical contact and it just doesn't feel the same if you avoid eye contact. If he can't open his eyes while you're making love, something emotional is wrong. Or your partner may like sex with your eyes closed, but it's important to discuss this.
No kisses
One of the coolest things about sex are kisses. If the person you are sleeping with is not very fond of kissing, you may want to think twice about continuing your relationship with her. It may be a fact that he only wants sex and is not seeking any engagement with you. Or maybe he is not a very good kisser and prefers to avoid this part, however this should be discussed.
You never go into orgasm.
Inability to reach orgasm is very common for both men and women, but if it happens repeatedly it can be a problem and affect your sex life. Even more so if the partner refuses to talk about it, obviously something is wrong. you need to talk together and find a solution.
It requires you to do things you do not want to do
If you do not feel comfortable during sex, this is a red alert. if your partner forces you to do things you do not want during sex or does not respect your desires, this is a serious problem. Your better half needs to hear your worries in bed. No excuses!
selfishness
If one is selfish, he is sure to show this side of himself in the bedroom as well. A person who thinks only for himself is focused only on his pleasure, not the other way around. So if your partner has similar behavior, maybe it's time to say goodbye. Sex is one side, but who would want to be with a selfish person?
