Is there a worse feeling than waiting for someone to answer you? The thoughts that go through your head are the most terrifying, especially if you are still in the beginning of a relationship and do not know enough.
We know how stressful this situation can be, so we want to calm you down! Messaging has become a unique problem in the world today. How to deal with this kind of "agony"?
Tell yourself the things below!
1. "It's just busy!"
Are you busy during the day or not? Many of us, too. In the early beginnings of a relationship, you probably aren't a priority for this man yet. They are at work, there are friends and other family members to think about. Busy people have busy lives, so it can be a little difficult for them to respond. Take a deep breath and remind yourself of this.
2. "It's ok even if it's not too fond of me"
Don't come to a hasty conclusion that he / she did not respond to your message on time. Give it some time.
3. "It's Monday!"
If you start a conversation early in the week, chances are you'll be delayed. Many people do not make plans for Mondays on weekends, so avoid this.
4. "Remember that not everyone is fond of their phones."
While you wait for a message, remember that the other person may not have the cell phone in hand. Not everyone is fixed behind him 24/7. So don't prejudge anything!
5. Say to yourself, "I don't mind"
Repeat after me, "I don't mind"! One of the things that can destroy you mentally is to think about what the other person is thinking. There is no way to detect this, so you tried.
6. "I'm super good!"
It is a good idea to remind yourself how much you value, whether or not he / she responds.
7. "It's time to go out"
Do something else instead of staying tied up behind the phone. Go out or call a friend. If you're worried about that message, tell yourself when it arrives you'll be there to reply.
