"We met and became friends at the university, fell in love, we became pregnant and married in our twenties. Once we read that sex is threefold: recreational, pro-reactive and relational. We have explored all three aspects that support each other and serve as the basis of our love.
We have never felt the need for improvement or stimulant. For us, having sex and making love are interconnected.
Three wonderful children, all of them in their twenties, are the result of the pro-narrative aspect of our sexual life. We still remember how difficult it is to make love with the aim of creating children. We know we were very lucky.
Having been married for thirty years, frequent sex in the youth has been replaced by quality sex at a later age. Since we live alone, we can make love for hours in the daytime, a recreational aspect that is inaccessible when the children are living with us.
Sometimes things do not work (fatigue, stress, menopause, medication) but it does not bother any of us and soon, we again experience something wonderful.
We love to be naked together, to pamper ourselves after we make love, talk, sleep and wake up. Thus, our relationship supports our sexual life and vice versa. we look forward to the next 30 years of our lives. We are blessed. "
Written by Anonymous Anonymous for The Guardian
