There were enough four situations that were thought to belong to a training session for officers in connection with the investigation of sexual crimes, to crash the sad truth: Today, in 2019, there are still young and new that justify sexual abuse. As you can see in the following, the victim's fault (in this case the girl's) grows depending on details such as: open décolleté, short skirt, alcohol, hotel, flirt etc.
Situation 1: The girl is coming home late and the neighborhood is too dark. A 30-year-old boy follows him a bit, asks him to stop. It does not stop. He benefits from the road that does not move and takes it by force in an old building nearby and raping.
Fault: Boy 89%, Girl 11%
Situation 2: A girl likes to dress sexy and attract attention. She is dressed in a short dress and open décolleté, is coming back from the club by night, and there are a group of guys in the street who come in and ask for the phone number. They touch and raise the dress by playing it.
Guilty: Boy 77%, Girl 23%
Sitata 3: She has had a lot of relationships and she likes to meet new people. On Saturday, at the club, she sees a charming boy with whom she starts to flirt. He does not seem very interested, but she catches her attention. After drinking some drinks together, they decide to join the hotel. In the car she sees that he has a gun and is shy, tells him he would like to go home. He says he will go to the hotel and then take him home. She wants to go home, but he does sex with her unwillingly.
Fault: 69% son, 31% girl
Sitata 4: A girl decides to share the hotel room with her friend on a business trip. She liked that boy for some time, but there was nothing between them. The boy had never expressed his feelings towards her and the invitation to stay in a hotel room came from the girl himself. That night, they began to kiss, but the girl was not feeling wanting to further her relationship and did not want to have sex. The boy makes sex with her unwillingly.
Fault: Boy 66%, Girl 34%
What many other followers, surprised by the vote, point out, is "that in all cases, the boy's action (ie sex) has been against the girl's wishes." In its most naked concept, rape is exactly sexual activity without the consent of one party. Other details are unnecessary. Simply put: A girl (or boy) can wear what she wants, flirt with whom she wants, go home late at night and again have 0% of guilt in rape.
"In all cases there is a 100% boy fault. I still do not understand how the percentage comes narrowing, where by the people if the girl is dressed in sex, I will flirt, but no sex, kiss it but no sex, etc. "- wrote a trackback. "Horrible, a society that justifies sexual violence. This is the case when family and school sex education is a taboo. It's even more scary than sexual reporting is a bit reportable, "adds another.
Perhaps you and the part who voted to blame the girl may not be the victim of rape or sexual harassment, but those who have / have been much better acquainted with the situation. The rape cases were as terrible as they were: raped elderly women, children, teenagers in school uniforms, pajamas, bikini, raped Muslim women with burqa etc. So it is clear that rape or sexual harassment is NOT related to how a woman wears when she leaves or when she returns from the club.
To convey this fact, an exhibition at Molenbeek, Brukses, showed what they were wearing different people when they were raped. Through the 18 apparel, there was a blouse of children, jeans and blouses, tracksuit, a police uniform, a sweater, and so on.
An article by The Independet summed up the stories of Muslim women who were sexually raped or harassed despite modest dress. The hijab, nikabi, loose dresses typical of Muslim culture have the following purpose: to prevent the lusts of men and to "preserve the dignity" of a woman. Excessive to say that they were not and are not effective. Rape has never been a lazy job.
A woman can be raped by a stranger, a boyfriend, a husband, another woman, as long as the sexual act occurs against her will. The only causes of rape are rapists!
