I bet that most of those who are in a relationship read the above title and raise their eyebrows in a sign of disapproval. The first thought that most likely came to their mind was: "I'm in a relationship, I do not have to flirt."
You need to know that couple relationships do not ever have a written contract that says we should give up on our sexual features. As human beings we are, our sexuality is as economical as we are alone and in a relationship. Likewise, being in a relationship does not mean that one has to constantly fill the mind that someone is not attractive. When in a relationship you have a constant relationship with a partner / partner in whom no one can interfere. But it is entirely possible (and normal) to feel a slight connection (spark) with someone, somewhere there. When I say "flirting" does not mean to spit a bunch of people and take the lawns. There is a very close border between flirting and betrayal. Flirting has its obvious borders, where you do not expect to swim or go out with someone. If you and your partner decide to apply "flirting" know that what you do is very important. That is why:
Being in a relationship often relates to the notion of "blasphemy, trapping". Once the euphoric fucking phase of a relationship ends, the partners drowned. Being aware of someone is considered to be a mental and emotional betrayal, so we necessarily push ourselves to the unavoidable change. Why should we limit ourselves to being involved with other people? The more we strive to move our basic needs, the more bundled we are.
It's psychological
As soon as you approach someone and talk, you will notice that once the bosu is finished, the withdrawal will begin to fade slightly. We have heard so often saying, "You want what you can not have." The reason why we retreat after someone terribly much while we're in a relationship is about the very fact that we can not be near, talk to and recognize them. Let's say a forbidden apple, and you know how intriguing everything is forbidden. Thus, the idea of betraying starts and grows and we start looking for a way out in the country to just get rid of it. The right thing to keep away from these thoughts is to flirt, flirt, flirtate. As soon as you do, you will understand that the idea of being "snatched" was just in your head.
Two separate individuals
Being one, but two indents mean that you are ultimately a free being. There is no reason why you and your partner should act as a single unit at all times. (And no, this has nothing to do with the lack of affection). You are free to flirt, biseod you, or like many other people. Staying all the time together and acting as a single individual will feel how your parent will lose your attention and interest, perhaps the same as you do to him / her. What will happen? Your interest will be looked elsewhere! Need to know that independence is an important key to the success of relationships in pairs and not just.
It's a test
Sometimes flirtatiouss push you to further evaluate your partner as it helps you to figure out how dedicated and happy you are to keep in touch. If so, no doubt you will be tempted to take the next step, betrayal.
It's fun
Being in a relationship does not mean you have to stop having fun. Em mabn remember the fun saga was when you met your partner for the first time? Detonation, Detonation, etc.? These feelings are made with the echo of why not live again?
Flirting with other people is a presumed place. If you feel you will not do it, do not do it; in the opposite, if the relationship pushes you to feel "unblocked" go and flirt. Draw boundaries and continue to love your partner.
Good luck!
Written by ELYANE YOUSSEF for "Elite Daily"
