Bringing a child into your life is the biggest step you can take, as it not only takes your relationship to the next level, but also requires many responsibilities. Practically, a child changes your life completely.
But before this important decision, you should have a very serious conversation with your partner and it is good to ask these questions, to understand if you are on the same page.
Why would you have children at this point in your life?
How will we manage time for ourselves, for the relationship and for the child?
What are the strengths and weaknesses related to finances in this period?
How are we going to save up to pay for everything for the welfare of the child?
Will we hire a babysitter on specific occasions, or will we seek the help of friends and family?
What are the rules that we will follow seriously for disciplining and educating the child?
How will we share parenting duties?
What are your name suggestions?
What percentage will our parents be involved in their education and how will we set limits with their expectations?
How exactly are we going to discipline and educate him?
How will we manage to keep our relationship strong and stable?
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