There are studies proving that half of women would be separated from their partners if they did not receive a gift on Valentine's Day, so if you are expecting a gift, do not think that you are looking for something extraordinary. It is likely that he will not even mention February 14 at all, much less surprise you with something. What is done in such cases?
1. Avoid high expectations
You may like it when you hear about great romantic gestures, but only if your partner is a millionaire, do not expect to be done. On average, $ 142 is spent on Valentine's Day gifts. It may seem like a lot, but for every wealthy individual who buys his girlfriend an expensive sports car, thousands more donate a box of $ 10 chocolates, or a cheap bottle of wine.
2. Try not to react, at least until dinner
Many people expect to surprise their partners with gifts in the evening. Keep this in mind, especially if you do not live with your partner. Do not jump to conclusions if you wake up and do not find a bouquet of flowers at the door.
3. Continue the day normally
If you are very upset, just pretend it's not Valentine. Do not listen to the radio, do not turn on the TV and stay away from social networks.
4. Do not become jealous
If you are at work on Valentine's Day, you can see colleagues receiving flowers and chocolates. You know nothing about what is going on in their relationship. Buying material goods does not necessarily mean how they really feel. Try to remember all the times when your partner expressed his love for you.
5. Give your gift
Surprise your partner with your gift when you had it in mind, do not wait for the first one to react. Your partner may have bought you something recently, but it is unclear when you should exchange gifts.
Then recall any past events that may have made it difficult for your partner to purchase gifts. You may have said that you do not like Valentine, or that you do not want gifts.
6. Ask your partner if he has an idea what day it is.
If you do not know it's Valentine, there is no reason to be upset.
7. Rethink your status.
If you have two days together you can not expect a gift and if you have a lot of time together, it happens that gifts on Valentine's Day are neglected. But talk to your partner.
If he did not intend at all to show you with a gift or gesture how important you are to him, let him know that something like this bothers you. Try to be calm during the conversation and be honest with your requests. If he shows no form of remorse, it could be a bad omen.
Source: Huffington Post
