Can we talk a bit about masturbation, either a single minute? I know that it may seem scandalous for a mother to discuss personal satisfaction so, however studies show that 81% of women masturbate on average twice a week.
Let me tell you that you were in a culture that considered masturbation as something bad. I remember conversations with my college friends, where I realized I was one of the few that I was never masturbated. I had the idea that only the boys would do it; I was reminded of teenage movies where mothers found "dirty" clothes for boys. Yes girls? Well, they do not, so I thought.
I am married for 10 years and have been the only sex partners of each other for over a decade. I performed 3 natural births, which resulted in visible changes in the body. I had no self-esteem, I did not enjoy sex and wanted to improve my life.
Gynecology advised me to masturbate, as if she was telling me to go to the gym four times a week so that the pelvic muscles would be tightened and strengthened. She told me that I would explore myself, reveal new tricks that I could use in the room with my spouse.
However a few minutes after I finished, I regret badly. Sex has always been a shared intimacy with the partner, and now it's just me, while he is at work and the kids at school.
I would love to know if I'm the only one that I feel after masturbation?
