Amber Candy, the resident of "Big Brother VIP Albania 4", told yesterday a painful story from her life, in a moment of conversation with all the residents of the house.
In this request from Big Brother, where each resident had to confess one of the "storms" of their life, Amber decided to talk about the difficulties she faced when she decided to make the transformation by changing her gender.
She started the story by stating that the initiative to carry out the transition, which started by going to Italy, cost her the closure of her business in Albania and the breakdown of relations with her family, which was not aware of this decision for her at first.
She said that when she called her family to tell them about the change she planned to make, the family did not support her, causing her to cut ties with them immediately:
"Before I went into the operating room to do one of the surgeries, I called my sister and told her, 'I've decided to become Amber,' and she said, 'If you're going to do this, you have to take it off.' and our last name because we do not accept this."
Further, she continued the confession:
"It is with the greatest regret that I enter the hall to realize my wish that I had for many years. I realized all that was needed with a suffering inside me because I was really realizing a dream, but I was losing a lot of people I had behind."
Amber revealed that the moment she made the transition also coincided with her father's diagnosis with cancer, from whom she received a phone call a month after the breakup between them and the subsequent news:
"After a month, I get a phone call and he tells me that 'dad is seriously ill and is looking for you on the phone'. My father comes on the phone and says 'No matter what you become, you remain my child. You are my blood and I will never reject you, if you thought I rejected you.' After 10 minutes I get another phone call saying that my father has died. My world collapsed.”
Amber called the shocking event "the biggest pain of her life", due to the important fact that even after this phone call with her father, she could not fix her relations with her family, explaining in detail:
"After I received this news, I received another phone call and told me that 'you should not come because we as a family have a Seder, we suffer for public opinion and you, if you have changed and become what you wanted to be, you "You will attend your father's funeral."
The sad story, which Amber described as the "storm" of her life, she said she had sworn to tell without shedding tears, at the request of her late father, thus fulfilling the promise to the latter.
